The right wedding stationery reflects your style, gives guests every detail they need and arrives in good time. Start with your guest list, events and dates, then choose a designer who can handle your wording, scripts and finishes. This checklist covers what we ask every couple before recommending a stationery partner.
Key takeaways
- Confirm dates, venues and guest list before ordering invitations.
- Allow extra time for multi-event suites, scripts and special finishes.
- Check every proof carefully, ideally with a second pair of eyes.
What do you need to decide before ordering stationery?
Confirm your venues, dates and times for every event you are inviting guests to. Finalise your guest list by household, and decide who is invited to which events, as South Asian weddings often have different guest lists for the mehndi, sangeet, ceremony and reception.
Choose your overall style and colour palette so the stationery matches the decor. Stationery is often the first glimpse guests get of your wedding.
When should you send save the dates and invitations?
Timing depends on how far guests are travelling.
For multi-event Asian weddings, send the full suite at once so guests can plan for every function they are invited to. Close family may need the details earlier still, as they often help with preparations in the week before.
- Save the dates: once the venue and date are confirmed, typically many months ahead.
- Invitations for UK weddings: a few months before the first event.
- Destination weddings: earlier, to allow for flights, leave and visas.
- RSVP deadline: a few weeks before your caterer needs final numbers.
- On-the-day stationery: order once RSVPs are in and the table plan is settled.
Tip from our team: Work backwards from the date your caterer and venue need final numbers. That sets your RSVP deadline, which sets your invitation send date.
How do you get the wording right?
Wording reflects who is hosting. Many South Asian invitations are sent in the names of the parents or grandparents, and may open with a religious line such as Ik Onkar, a Ganesh blessing or Bismillah. Jewish invitations may include the Hebrew names of the couple.
Keep practical details clear: event names, dates, start times, venues, dress codes and RSVP instructions. If families want to include a blessing or verse, ask a knowledgeable relative to check it.
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What questions should you ask a stationery designer?
Experienced designers answer these clearly and in writing.
Ask to see real printed samples rather than only digital mock-ups. Paper weight, foil colour and ink on textured card can look very different in the hand, and seeing them in person avoids disappointment when the full order arrives.
- How many design revisions are included?
- Can you print in Gurmukhi, Devanagari, Urdu, Hebrew or other scripts?
- Can I see printed samples of the paper and finishes?
- What is the turnaround from final proof to delivery?
- Can you supply matching on-the-day stationery?
- What happens if there is a printing error?
What are the red flags when ordering stationery?
Be cautious of designers who will not send physical samples, have no clear revision policy or cannot confirm print turnaround times. For suites with non-Latin scripts, a designer who cannot show previous work in that script is a risk.
Proofing is the biggest area where things go wrong. Names, dates, times and venue addresses must be checked by at least two people before printing.
Want a quote for wedding stationery?
Free, no obligation. Tell us your date and venue.
How do you plan on-the-day stationery?
On-the-day pieces guide guests through the event. A welcome sign at the entrance, a clear table plan, table names, place cards and menus help guests settle quickly and make the room look finished.
Agree with your decorator and venue who will set these out, and when. Our team covers the whole UK and can coordinate stationery delivery with your decor partner so everything is in place before guests arrive.
Frequently asked questions
How far in advance should I send wedding invitations?
For UK weddings, send invitations a few months before the first event. For destination weddings, send them earlier so guests can arrange travel and leave.
Do I need separate invitations for each wedding event?
Not always. Many couples use one main invitation with inserts for each event, so each household receives only the events they are invited to.
Should I include a wedding website on my invitations?
A website or QR code is useful for directions, hotels and RSVPs. It keeps the printed suite clean while giving guests all the details.
Who sets out place cards and table plans on the day?
Usually the decorator, planner or venue team. Agree this in advance and deliver the stationery to them with a clear layout plan.
Find the right stationery designer
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